A House built for people who mean it.
Dommi is a House, not a marketplace of faces. Members are admitted, not acquired, and what they build is built on written terms they settle together. The Tenets below are the whole of the agreement you accept at the door.
Structure is the point, not the obstacle.
Most of what people want from each other goes unsaid, and then goes wrong. The House takes the opposite view: the terms of a bond are worth writing down, reading in full, and agreeing to before anyone commits. Clarity is not the cold end of intimacy. It is what lets intimacy hold.
Nothing here is permanent by default. A member can pause, and a member can walk. Consent is not a door you close once. It is a hand you keep on the latch. That is the whole ethic, and every Tenet is a way of keeping it.
House Tenets · Version 1.0
Before the House opens
- 01Every member is an adult, and every connection begins with consent.
- 02Terms are set in writing before they take effect.
- 03A limit can be named, revised, or withdrawn without penalty.
- 04Standing is earned through kept terms and steady conduct.
Six terms every member accepts.
They are not fine print. They are read at admission and they govern everything that follows.
- 01
Every term is chosen. Nothing that passes between members is assumed, and nothing is owed until it is written and agreed.
- 02
Limits can be revised, and consent can be withdrawn, at any point. This holds even after an Accord is sealed. A pause is a member's right, not a fault.
- 03
No role grants power beyond the terms both members accepted. The Authority sets terms; the Devoted keeps them; both answer to the same written agreement.
- 04
What passes between members stays between them. The Channel is closed to everyone else, and the House does not trade in what it is told in confidence.
- 05
Standing is earned by kept terms and steady conduct. It cannot be bought, and it does not follow popularity.
- 06
Admission is considered. A place in the House is offered, never sold, and it can be set down by the member who holds it.
If the Tenets are yours, so is a place.
Admission is by invitation and every request is considered. If this is the way you want to be met, request yours.
You can see the full passage, step by step, on the How it works page.